Hello there and welcome to MsLace.com

It’s finally here! After several mishaps and setbacks MsLace.com has arrived. My goal for starting the site was a place for women to come and get valuable “girlfriend” information. A place to talk and share stories about relationships, health and wellness, fashion, life, etc. Also a place where I could freshen up on my writing skills. I hope to publish several fiction and non-fiction works in the very near future.   With so many stories in my head it’s hard to deny the one I’ve lived. Whenever I start to write any story it brings me to a memory, a page, or a chapter right out of my life. Until recently I never thought that my life was worth a book. Not long ago I started to digest the years that I have survived so many obstacles. Not even realizing the impact they made on my life.    In life we all have our regrets, hopes, dreams, and aspirations. Then we have triumphs, failures, sorrows, and love. Those are the things I like to call the rubble. The rubble or debris is the thing that’s left after a bad storm. The pieces of trash, broken tree branches, and washed up artifacts. The things we try to make sense of but the things we really should dispose of.  The rubble could be a broken home, a messy divorce, and loss of a loved one, or other trauma from our past. How we get to the point where we make sense of it all is where it starts to look and feel surreal and we begin to actually live.   So many successful people have humble beginnings. When you come from a place where hope seems lost. You develop a warped sense of self. Then life becomes harder and harder to deal with. You find yourself being full of answers because you’re afraid to ask questions. Knowing the solution is half the battle facing the problem is the toughest feat. You start looking for things to do to deter yourself from escaping your comfort zone. I know first hand. A once honor student full of promise. Driven to succeed and eager to learn. I stand before you an offender, a survivor of child molestation, physical and mental abuse from the age of 7. The very things I have been ashamed of are the very things that I now embrace. It took a long time for me to truly understand that I was not a victim but a survivor. And that my story could help someone who may be going through something similar to things I have encountered in my past.   I have to admit that this process is going to be difficult for me yet very therapeutic and cleansing all at the same time. I am not a psychiatrist, a member of clergy, or any sort of counselor but I hope that through me sharing what I have been through one reader will take something away from it. Of course there are several of us out there. Survivors. I just want you to feel empowered and enthused to step out on faith and find yourself, as I journey to find me Beneath the Rubble.     Lacy is avaliable for speaking engagements and event hostings. For bookings please submit your request via email lacy@mslace.com    .