Dating….For what???

So we pull out our favorite get’em girl dress.  Get our wig tossed, nails, done and pay a babysitter. All to sit across from some damn weirdo. While we fill up on fine food, cheep wine and feed each other bullshit. Trying to cram our life in a 30 minute conversation that is constantly interrupted by some moonlighting waitress who hopes he tips well. What’s your favorite color? Where did you grow up? Where were you when I was 17 and wanted to just kick it? Who cares? We talk around all the real questions like…Are you really single or do I have to play your cousin? Do you have a real job? Do you think I owe you something for this meal? Is it tricking and do you have it? Okay, so there is more important things to ask but hopefully you get the point. To some ladies dating is a way to try out that new restaurant. And men are just looking for that girl they can wine and dine knowing they might not have it. I for one am tired of the game playing. The getting to know some stranger, hoping he’s the one. To find out he’s a damn sex crazed psychopath. Yet we stay because we are tired of looking for love and lust in all the wrong places. Is it worth making it work with your on again “friend?” What are you dating for? Looking for Mr/Mrs. Right, or Mr/Mrs. Right Now?