Miss Independent or Miss Lonely Control Freak?

So many songs, poems, raps, and articles about being an independent woman. I’m starting to think it’s not all it’s crapped up to be. Maybe it’s an excuse for the men who aren’t any good to encourage us to do for ourselves FULLY while they slack off. I mean it does make sense. If you do it all yourself you only need him for one thing. And that’s all he wants anyway. Makes you wonder right. Miss Independent, well exactly how long are you supposed to be? And are you independent or are you just a lonely control freak who wants things to always go according to YOUR plan? I’m not sure of the time limit or if the “Miss” indicates a certain age group. But I’m sure this is not a title you want to take with you to your grave. Okay, so you wanted to wait until you became successful, or comfortable in life. Maybe you have had some horrible relationships you needed a break. Or perhaps you aren’t comfortable with letting someone new in. Whatever your problem your not alone or are you? So many women think that they can do it by themselves but after taking care of the car, taking out the trash, cooking dinner, and caring for the kids all after a long days work. You have to ask yourself who the hell is going take care of me? Believe me I’ve been there. So stuck in my ways that it is impossible for anyone to join my team of ME. Feeling that if you let go and give in that your going to lose your space. It’s time to wake up and smell that there’s no coffee brewing. Let him in. It’s cool that you can pay your own bills and take out your garbage, but let a man be a man FOR YOU. It is a beautiful thing to share the daily responsibilities that have been ALL yours for so long. To finally give someone else the keys and you sit in the passenger side for a while. The first step is admitting you have a problem. The worst person to lie to is YOU. So admit that it gets lonely some nights. Also understand that your way of doing things may be working NOW but they won’t always work. You don’t always have to be in control. Although he may not be Mr. Right he can be Mr. Right Now and practice makes perfect! Oh and please I don’t want to hear that shit about “I don’t need a man” because you do. If you didn’t they would not exist. I for one would like to denounce my “Miss Independent” crown. Would you care to join me?